Guest Writer Spot

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My guest this week needs very little introduction. Many of you know the hugely talented writer Jacqui Murray. I’m delighted to welcome her as a guest this week. Here she is with a very interesting post:

I’m 74 and still have plans for the next five-seven years of stories. I don’t think I’ll ever stop writing.

But I’m not like lots of other people. There are good reasons people quit. The most popular are: harder than expected, too much rejection, bad reviews, a disdain for marketing, and success didn’t come with the first (or second, or third) book. Some are good, some meh, but I respect all of them because someday, they may apply to me.

Here are the top ten reasons people claim for why they quit:

  1. They feel like they have nothing new to say. They’ve bought into the narrative that writers must teach-not-entertain. Luckily, I don’t suffer that.
  2. They burn out. That happens to people on jobs, hobbies, dreams, and life in general. Why wouldn’t it happen with something as demanding as writing? 
  3. Health issues. It could be physical like arthritis  in their hands or chronic fatigue, maybe chronic pain. It’s difficult to write when top of mind is always how lousy you feel or how you’d like to fall asleep.
  4. They discover a passion greater than writing. For me, that was raising my children for twenty years. When those demands moved on, writing remained.
  5. The time spent writing could put into a second–or third–job for financial reasons. Most writers I know make barely enough to offset its costs despite the long hours and intensive work. 
  6. No one supports your efforts. Support isn’t required, but it makes writing easier if a spouse or family or a group (maybe a writer’s circle) is there to answer questions and tell you all is going well. Without that, for some, it’s difficult to impossible to continue.
  7. No process was in place to support writing. Most writers don’t fail for lack of talent, rather, they lack a system that supports it–time set aside, proper habits, that sort.
  8. The reason they wrote ended. Now, your boat has no rudder. Lots of people start writing cathartically, to tell their life story, share a memoir. They hope (and their mentors confirm) that telling their story will help them get past it and help others in the same situation (which is how I started). When that’s done, they’re done. The joy of wordslinging never took hold.
  9. They’re older and think it’s time to stop. Lots of writers start in their seventies, don’t realize how many like-minded folk continue beyond their seventies and eighties. 
  10. They think writing will be easy and it never is. Writing requires an understanding of people, settings, the ins and outs of events, plotting, arcs, and so much more. It’s a challenge even for experienced authors. 

If you think of quitting, think of James Michener, author of forty-one major narrative novels over a forty-seven year career that extended well into his eighties:

“I’m not a very good writer, but I’m an excellent rewriter.”

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Author bio:

Jacqui Murray is the author of the popular prehistoric fiction saga, Man vs. Nature which explores seminal events in man’s evolution one trilogy at a time. She is also author of the Rowe-Delamagente thrillers and Building a Midshipman, the story of her daughter’s journey from high school to United States Naval Academy. Her non-fiction includes 100+ books on tech into education, and a freelance journalist on tech ed topics.

Jacqui’s latest book:

Blurb:

A tribe haunted by the past. Lies that threaten the future. A reason to find the truth.

Savage Land is the third trilogy about prehistoric man in the series, Man. Vs. Nature.Written in the spirit of Jean Auel, Savage Land explores how two bands of humans survived one of the worst natural disasters in Earth’s history, when volcanic eruptions darkened the sky, massive tsunamis crossed the ocean in crushing waves, and raging fires burned the land. Each of the tribes considered themselves apex predators. Neither was. That crown belonged to Nature and she was intent on washing the blight of man from her face. Join me in this three-book fictional exploration of Neanderthals. Be ready for a world nothing like what you thought it would be, filled with clever minds, brilliant acts, and innovative solutions to life-ending problems, all based on real events. At the end of this trilogy, you’ll be proud to call Neanderthals family.

In Balance of Nature, Book Three of the trilogy, the tribes face one final roadblock to reach what they hope will become their new home. They prevail but not without deaths and setbacks by collaboration and respect for the strengths of those they originally disdained. Now, in their homeland, where life should be about finding their place in a new landscape, instead, they find threats from old enemies and potentially lethal challenges.

Follow the courageous Yu’ung, the determined Kazeb, the mystical Shanadar, the pawed-and-clawed Canis and their tribes as they navigate a perilous world of tribal conflict, unexplained visions, and shifting loyalties. Their journey is a testament to resilience and the strength found in true leadership. Their personal struggles and heroic triumphs define this sweeping saga that ultimately leads to who we are today.

Social media:

Amazon Author Page:         https://www.amazon.com/Jacqui-Murray/e/B002E78CQQ/

Blog:                                        https://worddreams.wordpress.com

Pinterest:                                http://pinterest.com/askatechteacher

X:                                             http://twitter.com/worddreams

Website:                                 https://jacquimurray.net

61 responses to “Guest Writer Spot”

  1. It’s wonderful to see Jacqui here, Esther. 😍

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    1. Thank you, Tim. I’m so pleased to have her here.

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    Thanks for hosting Jacqui, Esther.

    ‘Lo, Jacqui:)

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    1. It was a delight to have her.

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  3. This is interesting, Jacqui and Esther. I’ve never really thought about quitting writing. As long as the story ideas and inspirations come, I feel like it’s my obligation to explore them. But I do know authors who have hung it up. Some of them pulled their books down as well. I scratch my head over that one. Why would you want to do that? Thank you both for sharing this thought-provoking post!

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    1. I found it really interesting, too, Jan. I’m glad you enjoyed it. Have a lovely weekend.

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  4. […] to the extended launch for Balance of Nature, Book 3 of my trilogy, Savage Land. Today, I join Esther Chilton at her fascinating blog. Esther is that multi-talented colleague who not only writes her own books […]

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  5. How interesting! I really enjoyed this article. It’s great to see Jacqui here.

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    1. Thank you, Kymber. It’s been great to host Jacqui.

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  6. A very interesting article! As I age, I hope I still have the physical and mental capacity to keep writing until the end. 🤞

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    1. I feel exactly the same.

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      1. I’m glad I’m not alone in feeling this way!

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  7. wise questions and contemplations.

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    1. Thank you for your comment.

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      1. My pleasure 🙏🏾

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  8. It isn’t realistic for most of us to think we’ll earn a living from our writing. For me, that’s way down the list anyway. It has to be something that feeds one’s soul.

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    1. It really does. Thanks for that, Pete.

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  9. It’s great to see Jacqui featured here, Esther, and this post is interesting and helpful. She is an inspiration. Thank you for hosting! I haven’t thought of quitting, but I struggle with finding a balance between online presence and actual writing. This year, I chose to blog less so I’ll have more time to work on my projects. But an online presence is needed too. It’s murky. 🙂

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    1. Thanks, Lauren. Jacqui certainly is an inspiration. It is hard to get the balance right. I think it’s important to write for you and to work on those writing projects you want to.

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  10. Many thanks for hosting Jacqui today. We love her work and appreciate others who feature her fascinating books.

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    1. Thank you for stopping by. Jacqui is a very talented writer.

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  11. Hi Esther, this is a great post. For me, I believe 4 applies to an extent. I enjoy painting more than I enjoy writing. Now, I only write articles. Poems and short stories.

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    1. I’m glad you enjoyed it, Robbie 😊

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  12. Balance of Nature is such an entertaining, well-written book. I’m glad to see it featured here. I don’t think age matters in extended writing journeys, but health does. A sweet woman in our writing group is in such constant nerve pain that it overtakes her thoughts through the day. It’s hard for this brilliant, insightful woman to write anything nowadays. So sad.

    I am reminded that Herman Wouk wrote his last book when he was 100. Cool!

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    1. That really is sad. Thanks for you for sharing that, Priscilla.

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  13. Great to see Jacqui featured here, Esther! Interesting points, Jacqui, about why people quit writing. This one made me exclaim “NO WAY!”

    They’re older and think it’s time to stop.

    As you pointed out, writing is one activity that surely can continue on well into old age, as long as one still has the mental capacitiy and relatively good health!

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    1. Thanks so much, Debbie. Very true!

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  14. Excellent post, Esther. I started writing at 701/2 and am still. going strong at 84. (85 in May)

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    1. That’s brilliant, John. I have some students in their 80s. My oldest one was 93 and so passionate about writing.

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      1. That sounds like a terrific story. 😊

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  15. Great post, Jacqui. I’m 70 and have been writing for 46 years. I still love the process, but I’ve started to think about winding down. Yet, your piece has given me pause to think that maybe it’s a little too early to be worrying about that. I love the idea of being well enough and motivated enough to write into my eighties 🙂

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    1. My oldest student was 93 so there’s plenty of time, Debbie!

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      1. That’s amazing, Esther. I’m feeling inspired 🙂

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  16. Health issues are interesting, just because I suspect they are also something that gets people into writing. On here, for example, I have the impression that several people became involved while they were recovering from something.

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    1. I certainly did. It really helped me in my recovery.

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      1. Yes and me. I suddenly had time on my hands…

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  17. You’re definitely no quitter Esther and a superb writer!!!!! I bet you last a lot longer than 10 years! 💕. Let’s just hope there aren’t any hand or eye issues that show up for either of us! xx

    Cheers to Jacqui on this great trilogy. She’s another amazing writer and glad to see her book doing so well as expected. Thanks for sharing it with us. Love the neanderthals. 🔥💗

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    1. Thanks for your comment, Cindy. Jacqui is a super writer and very inspirational ❤️

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  18. Wonderful. Always something to learn from Jacqui.. Not only a wonderful writer, but extremely knowledgeable about all things writing.

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    1. She really is. Thank you for your comment.

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  19. It is great to see Jacqui here with her excellent advice. I’ve only written one book. Will there be more? I don’t know. I finished Jacqui’s latest book Balance of Nature a couple of days ago. I loved it and I will soon write an Amazon review. I am so glad that Jacqui said “….still have plans for the next five-seven years of stories”. I’ve loved all three series. A million years ago until 75,000 years ago.

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    1. Thank you for your comment, Thomas. I’m so glad you enjoy her books.

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      1. Yes very much. Thank you Esther.

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    How groovy was that to turn the reigns over to Jacqui and treat your readership! You must really think fondly of us to arrange such a treat as this! 🥳

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    1. I’m so glad you enjoyed it 😊

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  21. I enjoyed what Jacqui had to say. She is such an excellent writer.

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    1. She really is. Thanks, Jennie.

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      1. You’re welcome.

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  22. so nice to see your work featured on Esthers site, Jacquie! X

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    1. Thank you for the comment, Carol Anne.

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  23. I’m glad you will keep writing, Jacqui! I haven’t stopped. I just decided to change course. I was getting into a rut and needed to pull myself out of it.

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  24. Seventy-four? You seem like about fifty or less, Jacqui! You have the energy of a 2-year-old, or so it seems to this 74-year-old. I agree wholeheartedly with not slowing down, if at all possible. I’m excited to read your newest book. 🙂

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    1. I agree, Marsha. Jacqui seems so much younger than she is. Very inspirational.

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      1. She is. Her books are really fabulous. I can’t wait to get the time to read her new one.

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    This looks a great read, Jacqui! Love your attitude and all those plans – a great inspiration! Thanks for sharing Jacqui’s work, Esther! 🙂

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    1. Glad you enjoyed reading it, Nicola. Jacqui is a great writer and motivator.

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  26. It is an interesting list of reasons people may stop writing. Some may stop temporarily and others may stop altogether. I think it all comes down to making choices as other priorities intervene. I love to write, but I stop and start according to other demands on my time. When life is relatively quiet I enjoy few things more than to settle into some writing. Local natural disasters, busy periods of life admin / maintenance and extended family caring have all stopped my writing for longer than I would like in the recent past. However, if I was ever paid to write I might prove to be more flexible!

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    1. Thank you, Sean. I think life often gets in the way of writing. And, of course, money certainly helps!

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  27. Interesting reasons why people may quit. I don’t know if I can quit writing though I do have long breaks due to working full-time.

    Great post Jacqui and Esther.

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    1. Thank you for your comment, Luciana.

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