Music Memories

We’re a few weeks into this series now and we’ve covered California Dreamin’ , Moonlight ShadowThe Smurf SongThe Clapping Song, Chiquitita and Lady in Red. It’s now time for Girls Just Want to Have Fun by Cyndi Lauper.

What teenager who grew up in the 1980s doesn’t remember Girls Just Want To have Fun? As an eleven-year-old, I thought Cyndi was amazing. After all, she had pink and orange hair! As a child, I had always been taught to be respectful, to have manners and to toe the line. And here was this strong, independent woman who didn’t seem to have a care as to what others thought of her. My mother wasn’t very impressed – with her – or with the song.

“Sounds like a cat being strangled,” was her take on it.

I thought otherwise – and chose to have it blasting out on my record player at every opportunity. I seem to remember it causing the odd row, with Mum often shouting up the stairs, “Will you turn that racket off!”

Over the years, as I grew up and then went on to start a family of my own, I didn’t think about Cyndi too much even though I heard Girls Just Want To Have Fun on the radio now and then.

Though, it was a song I was to share with my teenage daughter – whether she liked it or not – when we went to Florida a few years ago.

International Drive, which is also known as I-Drive, a major 11.1-mile thoroughfare and the city’s main tourist strip, is part of Florida we got to know very well. We would often catch the I-Ride Trolley (a bus which travelled up and down I-Drive all day stopping at various points along the way). What has the I-Ride Trolley got to do with Girls Just Want To Have Fun? Well, it seems they like to play the song on the Trolley – over and over and over again. It appeared to be on a loop and that loop wasn’t stopping anytime soon.

My daughter coped well at first. Then, after hearing the song a few times, her face took on a sort of grimace. “What the hell is this song?” she said. “Who on earth likes something like this?” And “Why on earth can’t they stop playing it and play something else!”

I think I looked a little hurt; I was sure there were songs she thought were currently fantastic that in years to come she’d cringe at. Not that I was cringing at Cyndi. How could I? It was Girls Just Want To Have Fun.

By the end of a fortnight’s holiday, the grimace had turned to looks of anguish and of someone undergoing the worst torture possible. She survived, especially when I pointed out to her that there were far worse songs of the 80s. I may have to play her The Birdie Song by The Tweets sometime…

32 responses to “Music Memories”

  1. I still love that song, and I’m in Florida but don’t know if there is still a trolley, lol. We get on what is now called A1 all the time, but I’ve never seen a trolley. I’ll have to ask a local.

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    1. That’s really interesting. I’d love to come back sometime.

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  2. Both my daughter and I loved this song. She would actually dress up like Cyndi Lauper and sing it. It’s a very catchy tune although I guess hearing it over and over would get on your nerves. I actually have seen Cyndi Lauper perform live. She’s a fabulous entertainer. My favourite song of hers is True Colours.

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    1. I’d love to see her live. That must have been something to treasure.

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      1. She was opening for Cher. I enjoyed the Cher concert but I must admit, Cyndi was just as great!

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  3. I do like the song, even if it was never a favorite, not even of her songs. That being said, I don’t think I could listen to it on repeat, over and over! lol.

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    1. Thanks, Trent. Yes, I think it was the frequency that did the damage 😆

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  4. Your post is funny. I was obsessed with Tracy Chapman and The Pet Shop Boys and played both albums repeatedly. It’s funny, I remember clearly listening to this music and can picture myself doing so in my head, but it seems so long ago in some ways. A bit weird.

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    1. It is, isn’t it? So memorable but so long ago. Thanks, Robbie.

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  5. I loved Girls Just Want to Have Fun but I suppose I might tire of it too if I heard it over and over without ceasing. 😆

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    1. It is a great song and I’m glad it didn’t put me off. I still love it. Thanks for your comment, Nancy.

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  6. LOVE me some fun and love me some Cyndi! ❤

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  7. Karma Chameleon comes to mind. One of my top 3 pet hates.

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    1. Oh yes, I remember that! Now that gets really annoying!

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  8. It is amazing how the taste in music evolves. I grew up listening to very old-fashioned music and then towards the end of my teenage years I started listening to more modern music including Cyndi Lauper. I thought it was great. But my kids are not into that kind of music, even though they can appreciate some (but not all) music from the 80’s. They listen to other kinds of music. It can be difficult to accept that others can’t feel and appreciate the same thing as you. The same goes for food. Yesterday I ate Swedish smoked licorice fish at a family dinner, and I was the only one who liked it. Why can’t others feel and experience the same thing as I do? It is a mystery in every culture and generation.

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    1. Thank you for your comment. You’re so right – we are all very different and like different things. The smoked licorice fish sounds really interesting!

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  9. The sixties formed the soundtrack of my teens, The Rolling Stones, mainly Soul and Motown. In the seventies, Rose Royce, for the eighties, Chic Sister Sledge but running through it all was Fleetwood Mac, I saw them live just once, in the sixties at Ramsey in Cambridgeshire when Peter Green was still there. as for background music, I find it intrusive, I’m with your daughter on that point.

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    1. I love Fleetwood Mac. It must have been wonderful to see them live.

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      1. At that time I think, Albatross was their only hit, Peter Green was with them, then and if I recall it was an all-male band. Their encore song was I Hear You Knocking but You Can’t Come In. This was close to sixty years ago.

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  10. A terrific story Esther. Thank you so much for sharing it.

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    1. Thank you, John. Glad you enjoyed it.

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  11. I remember the sing and I still like it

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    1. Glad you do, Joanne 😊

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  12. That’s a wonderful story and a great song.

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    1. Thank you for your comment 😊

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  13. I still love this song! It’s so true! Fun stuff.

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    1. Thank you for stopping by, Dawn.

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  14. Thank you! That was FUN!

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    1. Thanks for dropping in, Resa 💐

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      1. My pleasure,Esther! 🌹❦

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